happy birthday to friend

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– Happy birthday, friend! Today I’m celebrating you and all the joy you bring into my life and I hope you have many more years of happiness ahead of you. Just like we would do to our mother or father, this year it’s your turn to enjoy some much-needed quality time with friends. In fact, this particular day has something in store for anyone looking for a reason to celebrate. For those who don’t know, you might not even be able to imagine what we are saying here. However, because it has been such a long time since you were last on Earth (thank goodness!), there’s no better time than right now to celebrate you! So, before we get to that, let’s take a moment to relive the good times…

There will come a day when I can no longer reminisce about the wonderful times we had together. You may wonder why? Or maybe one day you will read these words and realize once again how dear you truly are. Let’s try again next time to reflect on the past instead. Even if the next day is just another memory from yesterday, you still make me smile every single day. And so, I present to you a compilation of all the amazing memories between us, as well as any reasons we haven’t seen eye-to-eye yet.

We first met when you were only fifteen, but I’ve known you for over two decades now. We grew up together in different locations (both in Germany and California), which was hard at times but also a fun adventure and learning experience. Our parents never spoke English when we were young, nor did they speak German; however, because we lived together most of the time, I thought you would understand us…and if I were being honest, you often did! As an adult, you didn’t take me seriously when I did things differently from other people. But sometimes I still think back and remember things that made you happy and proud. Like when you said yes to going out dancing or taking me to concerts or watching movies with me every weekend on Saturday afternoons. No matter what, whenever I was sad, I knew it wasn’t because you were unhappy with me. It was because it meant a lot for you. That day I met you, I realized you are a genuine person who’s heart is pure and unbreakable. And I couldn’t have asked for a better friend! Although in hindsight, when we fell out of contact after college, I found myself wondering why our friendship went downhill. Then, a year later, you called. This time, I saw right through you and waited for hours until you answered. The conversation took less than 2 minutes! At the time, the idea seemed weird to me and I immediately asked “Why did you call from the beginning?” Knowing you cared so much, you explained that you were going through “a difficult phase in your life in regards to dating and relationships.” The conversation continued and soon it became clear that you were facing a huge loss and needed someone who would support you in everything you tried to do. Well, I’m sure you already know this story: You ended up marrying your husband almost 10 years ago today in an elaborate ceremony in Switzerland. Because of his constant disappointment with you, he married someone else. I know it hurt him more than anything; however, I think he understood that because of that, she was the one for her. So, this story I am sharing here is just one of countless scenarios that could’ve turned out very differently. Anyway, I hope everything worked out for both of us, but I know that the way you treated me played a big part. And in retrospect, I don’t blame anyone, but yourself. What I know for sure is that losing her to that man was so painful for you, and it left you completely empty. Not only that, but you didn’t feel the same love from me either. These things happen in our lives too, so we need to accept this reality and move forward.

So, as of right now you look great from head to toe. Whether it could be because you’re aging gracefully or maybe the doctors have done a fantastic job…I know I didn’t say anything about age. Yes, I know exactly where you’re coming from and what happens to a human body at its prime, but it never really changes you. Your face is beautiful. Your skin seems to glow beautifully. Your eyes gleam like the stars over their horizon. Yes, you have aged just a little bit, but look at me! Still looks incredible and feels good. All my favorite things and many others about you are true; they’re just simply taken for granted. My favorite songs from you in particular are: One by Bob Dylan — Nothing Compares 2 U (with Mary Poppins theme) and Three Little Birds by Tom Waits. I miss you dearly, and I’m sorry there’s nowhere else you could go to. I will always be grateful for everything: laughter, hugs and kisses. There’s nothing quite like them. I wish you lots of happiness in all areas of your life! Until then, keep having a safe journey and love and respect always!